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DOMA Section 3 Challenge

Gill et al. v. Office of Personnel Management et al.

Bette Jo Green & Jo Ann Whitehead

Like all retirees, we worry about the future – but our worries are multiplied by federal discrimination.

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DOMA Stories:
Federal Marriage Discrimination Hurts Families

The double standard created by DOMA causes tangible harm to families every day. As we prepare for the May 6 federal court hearing in our challenge to the discriminatory law, we share some of those stories.

In 1996, Congress passed and President Clinton signed the "Defense of Marriage Act." DOMA ensured that when states ended their own bans on same-sex couples marrying, the federal government would disregard their marital status for purposes of all 1,138 federal laws in which martial status is a factor. Never before in our nation's history has the federal government disrespected a class of marriages for all federal purposes; the federal government has long relied on states to define marriage.

In GLAD’s DOMA case Gill v OPM, we represent 8 couples and 3 widowers who are harmed in various ways by DOMA. But with over 1,000 marriage-related laws and programs, and with more and more same-sex couples getting married every day in the United States, DOMA hurts many more people than we can represent in a single lawsuit.

In these stories, loving couples, widows and widowers, from all walks of life, describe how DOMA hurts their families. A new story will be added each week, so please check back often.

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NEW: So Much Can Change in One Day

Jonathan Knight & Marlin Nabors

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DOMA decision: discuss!

Bette Jo Green & Jo Ann Whitehead

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DOMA Decision Dispatch: Plaintiffs Share Their Reactions

Gill v. Office of Personnel Management Plaintiffs

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Two dads, two kids, two dogs and DOMA: Which one doesn’t belong?

Thorsten Behrens & Christopher Schiebel

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DOMA ‘just doesn’t make sense’

BJ Weiss & Marty Downs

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A Hero’s Unwelcome

Tom Casey Hopkins & Darrel Hopkins

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Despite Our Differences

Oliver Sun & Glenn Miliken

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Paying the Price For Inequality

Marlin Nabors & Jonathan Knight

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Marriage is More Than a Legal Document

Suzanne Smith & Chris Parrish

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DOMA is Taxing Our Children’s Future

Mary Ritchie & Kathy Bush

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Truth Depends On a Walk Around the Lake

Dick Rubinstein

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Waiting for the Discrimination to End

Christina Renaud & Shelley Renaud

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We’re There For Each Other Through Thick and Thin

Alice Halstead & Joan Cousins

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Still a Lucky Man

Jay Toupin

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DOMA Makes Us Feel Erased

Bette Jo Green & Jo Ann Whitehead

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There is Nothing to Fear From Marriage Equality

Steve Kleinedler

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DOMA Has Limited Our Choices and Affected Our Kids

Nancy Gill & Marcelle Letourneau

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Our Lives and Dreams Are at the Mercy of DOMA

Niles da Silva & Thiago da Silva

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Jumping in the Deep End of the Pool

Paul Ruseau & Bob Ruseau

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I Owe It to Her Memory to Continue Fighting This

Jacqueline Murphy

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A Very Ordinary Family

Rebecca Rehm & Judi Burgess

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